Terms and Conditions

Last updated: August 25, 2026

1. About these terms

Automated Dating is a service of Peter Trai LLC, doing business as Automated Dating ("we," "us"). These terms govern your use of automated.dating and of our services. By using the site or purchasing our services, you accept these terms. If you do not agree, do not use the site or the services.

2. Eligibility

You must be at least 18 years old and have the legal capacity to enter into a binding contract. We provide the services solely for genuine, lawful romantic and relationship purposes.

3. The services

Automated Dating is a done-for-you matchmaking and dating concierge for busy professionals. With your explicit authorization, a trained human team manages your own dating-app profiles (swiping, messaging, texting, and scheduling), arranges introductions, and schedules real-world dates on your behalf. As an optional add-on, our AI-enhanced photography package produces professional photos that represent your real likeness, generated from photos you provide. Current pricing is described at /pricing.

4. Your account and authorization

You own and control your dating-app accounts at all times. By engaging us, you expressly authorize our team to access and operate those accounts on your behalf for the purposes described above. You agree to provide accurate information about yourself, and you remain responsible for your accounts, including compliance with each dating platform's own terms.

5. Prohibited uses

We strictly prohibit any use of our site or services in connection with human trafficking, including sexual exploitation, and any use that aids, abets, or encourages abuse of any kind. We also prohibit:

We refuse or terminate service immediately for violations of this section, without refund, and we report to law enforcement where appropriate. See /aup for our full acceptable use policy and /law-enforcement for how we work with authorities.

6. Payments and refunds

Before any charge, every client signs a written services agreement itemizing the description, duration, and exact price of the engagement. Each client has exactly one agreed payment structure. All charges are in USD and processed via Stripe. There are no hidden fees and no auto-recurring charges without a signed agreement.

All payments are final and non-refundable upon signing. The sole refund remedy is the Date Guarantee described in your agreement: if the guaranteed number of dates is not delivered within the ninety (90) day delivery window, service continues free for up to sixty (60) additional days, and if dates are still undelivered after that period, you receive a prorated refund of $250 per undelivered date below the guarantee. The guarantee is conditioned on your cooperation (timely photo approvals, responding to match approvals within 24 hours, and maintaining active dating-app accounts) and is tolled while you are unresponsive. Materially defective deliverables are re-performed, replaced, or credited. Photos-only packages are all sales final and carry no date guarantee. Non-waivable consumer-protection rights of your state are honored to the minimum extent required. Full details at /refunds and /pricing.

7. Guarantees and disclaimers

The only guarantee we make is the written Date Guarantee above. We do not guarantee chemistry, second dates, relationships, or any particular outcome. Testimonials and results shown on our site reflect individual experiences and are not a promise of your results. Except as expressly stated, the services are provided as is.

8. Termination

You may end your engagement as set out in your services agreement. We may suspend or terminate service for violation of these terms, including immediately and without refund for violations of Section 5. Sections that by their nature should survive (payments, intellectual property, disclaimers, limitation of liability, and dispute resolution) survive termination.

9. Intellectual property

The site, our materials, and our processes belong to us. Photos you provide remain yours; you grant us a license to use them solely to perform the services, including producing your AI-enhanced photos and operating your profiles.

10. Limitation of liability

To the maximum extent permitted by law, our total liability arising out of or relating to the services is capped at the fees you paid us for the engagement giving rise to the claim.

11. Dispute resolution and governing law

These terms are governed by the laws of the State of Florida. Any dispute will be resolved by binding arbitration administered by the American Arbitration Association, on an individual basis only. You and we each waive the right to participate in a class action. Either party may instead bring an eligible claim in small-claims court.

12. Electronic signatures

Consistent with the federal ESIGN Act, electronic signatures and records (including your signed services agreement) are valid and enforceable, and you consent to doing business with us electronically.

13. Changes to these terms

We may update these terms from time to time. The current version is always posted at /terms with its effective date above. Continued use of the site or services after an update means you accept the revised terms; your signed services agreement continues to govern your engagement.

14. Contact

Questions about these terms: email peter@automated.dating or text (646) 832-9166. We respond within 1 to 2 business days. See also /contact and /privacy.